Valuing a man’s contribution in a relationship is something that many men struggle with, especially when they haven’t had great role models growing up. Most men want to feel like they contribute to their partner’s happiness, and that they don’t just take up space in his life. They also want to feel like they add value in a way that is unique to them, and is not just physical, which is why they need women who see their contribution as more than sex and social connection.
Women often default to offering support and motherhood as their contribution to a relationship, but they are missing an opportunity to be more valuable by not seeing their own unique offerings in the relationship. They need to focus on providing value that cannot be easily replaced, and by seeing things from a man’s perspective to get the relationships they want.
When a man truly values you, he will listen carefully to what you have to say, offer constructive feedback, and remember the little things in your life, such as your favorite snacks or how you enjoy your coffee. He will also be able to provide the emotional resources that you need when you need them, and be a true partner in the relationship.
Another sign that a man values you is when he cares when a special occasion rolls around, such as your birthday or anniversary. He will make sure that he makes plans to celebrate or give you a gift to show that he is thinking about you. Valuing a man’s contribution in a relationship